How Do You Usually Go About It?

[Joker]

I was in the gas station today and this thick ass lady walked in, real short haircut, some faded knee-knocker jeans on with some tears in the back of the upper thigh and the front and her ass was looking like at me like 'You want to give me a little tap? Go head...gimme a little tap.'.

I stood there for a few seconds debating on whether I wanted to talk to her or not and ended up starting to walk towards her with a on the spot 'plan' in mind.

I'm within a foot of her when this happens...

Cashier 1: "God damn look at that ass."

Cashier 2: "Shit dude I'd hit it just LIKE that!(the chick had started to bend over to grab some chips or something)

Cashier 3: "Damn skippy, shorty making me want spring to come right this instant."

In short the trio of male cashiers started doing the 'I never seen a ass so fat before' nigga commentary that almost always ruins shit for either the woman they're talking about or for a mofo who's about to or attempting to talk to her.

She looked up at them, started muttering something under her breath and quickly exited the store. I'm standing there like :sad::noexpression::mad:

Niggas even tried the 'Hey girl hey girl' when she walked out the door. Two things entered my mind shortly afterward; 'How the fuck did the manager hire these three ignorant ass bastards?' and 'This is why I can't be around other dudes when I'm talking to a woman.'.

Anyway, I know most of us have our little tactics and strategies and shit, care to share?

[blizz77]

G'damn, I know exactly how you feel. If you were to exit the store with her and be on some gentlemen shit, she probably would look at you as if you're just like the assholes behind the counter. Not saying all women are like that but them niggas fucked that situation up for any MAN to stand a chance. Stupid asses didn't have the common sense to wait til she left the store. Even whores and sluts like to be treated with respect sometimes.

[jroc]

Recent changes in my life had me trying things outside of what I normally do. Like try to talk to women. lol

My thing is just regular textbook type stuff: eye contact, Good morning, Hello, Hi, something about the weather, etc. I never tried to talk to a white chick before. The other day I was in the break room. The faucet was messing up letting out steam, making a hissing sound. This nice looking white chick walked in, I noticed her noticing the sink. I said something like, "yea I thought it was a coffee pot over there". She laughed and said there were people up there the other day working on it. It went from that to us exchanging names, her sitting with me the next day at lunch time.

[ThePianoGuy]

I've played the "rescue" guy a few times when I'm at a club. It's obvious that some dude is harassing a girl because he doesn't have game, so I will come in and give her a big hug and whisper to her "I'm sorry, but is this dude bothering you?" For some reason that always seems to work for me. It will generally get me at least a dance too. It does help that my fashion sense and personality makes me pretty approachable. I would imagine that women would generally be freaked out if some random guy just came up and gave her a hug.

[CorruptCity]

''Hi... what's your name?'' usually works for me. Keep it simple and with a subtle smile. After that I introduce myself, then tell her something that makes her feel good or makes her laugh.

[tookiewayne]

its always good to come off differently than most guys do. since most niggas act as though they have never seen a nice ass or had a decent conversation with an attractive woman, its fairly simple to stand out from the crowd.

most of the time, when i see a young lady i find attractive, i approach immediately so i don't get nervous. that's the biggest part cus it doesn't really matter what you talk to her about, its more about how she feels about the interaction afterwords.

also i stopped askin for numbers and i just got some business cards printed up with only my name and number. so if the conversation goes smooth enough for me, i just tell her to give me a call so we can hook up.

there are some different techniques and books you can read, videos you can watch and lots of other information on the internet that can help you build an approach system that works best for your personality.

[SF Matt]

i dont say shit,
ill be posted,
and whenever i see a fine ass girl ill lock eyes with and shell be thinking its some fate type shit,
then i can say whatever i want to her,
100% gets me every girl i want

but i dont think i have game at all, girls just like me cuz im well dressed, well spoken, and aparently really really good looking

im the fine one to them hahaha im so lucky

[Alex Krycek]

I'da walked up to her at the pump and simply said hello.

[tookiewayne]

i dont say shit,
ill be posted,
and whenever i see a fine ass girl ill lock eyes with and shell be thinking its some fate type shit,
then i can say whatever i want to her,
100% gets me every girl i want

but i dont think i have game at all, girls just like me cuz im well dressed, well spoken, and aparently really really good looking

im the fine one to them hahaha im so lucky

a lot of dudes say "i don't have game" but the truth is, you do. game is just a slang term that is used to refer to dating strategy.

[brokeas]

this shit is too funny.. yall up in here some MAC's hehehe

Joker: I know what u are talking about... even if u wasn't go say anything to her.. dudes can mess it up for other dudes..