You don't do what?!?

[Deuce]

Over the years I've had my share of females say they don't give head. I've always thought to myself, BULLSHIT! But I also know alot of dudes that say they don't eat pussy. Me personally, I like doing it, but I won't do it to every chick that decides she wants to let me smash, nor will I do it to every chick that domes me up.

What is your take on people that say they don't perform the fine art of fellatio, cunnilingus, oral sex, mouth love....whatever you wanna call it. Do you think they are just full of shit? Do you think that some people really do find it nasty, repulsive, disgusting? What do you say to someone that tells you they don't do it?

[Mr Kels]

I think most people that have sex get down on the mouth level. It's part of fore play and if it's right, it makes it better. I've found that the ones that say that bull shit are usually the ones that do it the most.

Now I do believe that there are a few who may find it repulsing or what have you. Those are the ones that for whatever reason find it as degrading. In my opinion, they're probably the ones that never experienced, so they don't know how good it actually is.

[tookiewayne]

i have heard black women say they don't do it ever since i found out what it was. then as i got older those same girls who told me they wouldn't do it to was offering to speak some french on that thang. and thats when i found out that not only do women love sex just as much as men do, they love penis more than men love vagina.

well maybe thats equal.

the following isn't directed at anyone. its just my take on it girls who "say" they don't

now if a girl doesn't wanna suck your dick, that doesn't mean that bitch is not cuddled up with another dick singing slow jams to it. i think women only wanna do some sexual acts with certain men, and there is nothing wrong with that.

i think people engage in sexual encounters with a minimal goal in mind of achieving an orgasm or just some kinda of stress release. i think, initially, people approach sex in a very selfish way, unless they have some feelings for the person they are fucking. and they only want to give the other person pleasure if they care about them.

oral sex is a very selfless act and can be a vulnerable position to be in physically and psychologically. so it is okay to use discretion when choosing a person who will receive your mouth love.



except for hoes, and go-live-ers

[Deuce]

now if a girl doesn't wanna suck your dick, that doesn't mean that bitch is not cuddled up with another dick singing slow jams to it. i think women only wanna do some sexual acts with certain men, and there is nothing wrong with that.


Yeah I know this to be true also.

On the flip side of this coin, there are plenty of females that say, "oh you were the only one that I've done this to." Yeah fuckin right. and of course....niggas say that too.

I personally just don't wanna put my mouth on just anybody. And to be perfectly honest, if I'm gonna strap up with a chick, it wouldn't make much sense to eat the puss raw now would it?

[Da Eman]

I've realized that people who say they don't like or won't do it mean this:

"I don't like giving head or going down" = I've had a bad experience with it ...

or

"That's nasty, i won't ever do it" = Misinformed.

[Chelle]

I had this long response, but it's sad when you guys think everything is so black and white. There are tons of women who don't suck for tons of legitimate reasons. I've learned that thru experience. And we're not talkin about those who lie about it. Unfortunately, they all get grouped together.

[Deuce]

I had this long response, but it's sad when you guys think everything is so black and white. There are tons of women who don't suck for tons of legitimate reasons. I've learned that thru experience. And we're not talkin about those who lie about it. Unfortunately, they all get grouped together.

I understand people have their reasons. I stated my own for not doing it with some people in an earlier post. But I was originally talking about people who say they flat out DON'T do it, never have and never will. I was talking about people who lie.

[CorruptCity]

I think most people who don't do it are people who don't think they're any good at it. Maybe that's why i love doing it. :grin:

[tookiewayne]

I had this long response, but it's sad when you guys think everything is so black and white. There are tons of women who don't suck for tons of legitimate reasons. I've learned that thru experience. And we're not talkin about those who lie about it. Unfortunately, they all get grouped together.

would u please enlighten us on some of those legitimate reasons so future sweeping generalizations can be a bit more accurate?

really.

[DaDirtyOldMan]

I lost my virginity when I was 12. I didn't start eating pussy until I was 28. I had never planned on doing it. I do it pretty damn good now. I don't like doing it, but if I don't do it, someone else will. I personally think it's nasty to eat pussy.

I see sucking dick as being not different than licking or sucking BBQ sauce off of your own fingers. Aside from urine the semen and then later on sperm, women don't actually have anything to worry about. Unless the guy they are with is just nasty and doesn't wash his dick.

The pussy on the other hand secretes all kinds of shit. They piss out of it, it bleeds and who knows whatever else goes on down there. The woman that I'm with is very clean. My current partner is very clean. I know because we live together and I can see her habits. Now I don't know if she took a piss before during or after her shower. All I know is that when I went down on her, I tasted twinge of piss. I'm sure she didn't intentionally mean to do that, but you can only clean so deep down into a pocket.

Think about it fellas. How many times have you gone to the bathroom, took a piss and thought you shook it out well enough only to have a couple of drip come out just as you put it away? Well, same difference with women. They may have thought they wiped there selves clean, but then there is a little bit that gets trapped in there. So yeah. Who knows what's always marinating down there. I also make it a habit not to swallow anything when I don't it.

If someone says they don't do oral sex, they could be telling the truth. Besides, everyone knows that if they had to pick oral or intercourse for the rest of their life, they'd go with intercourse. That song "I like pussy but I'd rather get some head" is bullshit.

[Kaptivator]

I think most people who don't do it are people who don't think they're any good at it. Maybe that's why i love doing it. :grin:

Thats true. I have ran into several chicks that may not have been "experienced" in that area and was with a lame ass nigga that made fun of them..Thus fucking it up for the next man. With those type of women you have to build trust and pretty much be their freak for a while before they open up again. I find it a challenge, but once they open up, you can turn them out and continue to build their confidence. Think of that class or type of person the "Eager Beaver". Meaning that they may not be good yet, but they will work at it to get better if you just motivate and at times educate.

Had that issue with my chick, its no longer an issue. Now im working on porn watching together. Any tips would be nice. She sais it repulses her!!:noexpression:

[SchlongstaJ]

If a woman tells me she doesn't do oral, I take it at face value. I probably wouldn't even ask them why they don't. Maybe it's fully true, maybe she does do it and doesn't want anyone (i.e. me) to know right off the bat. Hell, maybe she wants to save that for marriage. Either way, I'm not going to call BullSHIT just because she may be lying. "I don't do oral" is not a dealbreaker when I'm talking to a woman. Why? Because things change, attitudes change, people change.

Oh, and DaDirtyOldMan put some truth in his response.

[zeddymac]

i think everybody is a sucker for somebody. she my not suck my dick but best believe theres some nigga out there she's deep throatin

[Chelle]

would u please enlighten us on some of those legitimate reasons so future sweeping generalizations can be a bit more accurate?

really.

From my class, I've heard the following: inexperience, immoral, traditional beliefs, bad experience, hygiene, size of man, man never asked, revenge, unstimulating, religious beliefs, selfishness, perception, sexual abuse, fear, acts that follow (holding head, pushing dick too deep), unreciprocated, unromanticizes sex, and no reason but they just don't want to.

It's important to note that while YOU may not think some of these are legitimate excuses/reasons, they are very real to the person who believes them. In quite a few of the cases, I am able to work past it, but there are some, that no matter what is said, you can't change a person's mind.


Besides, everyone knows that if they had to pick oral or intercourse for the rest of their life, they'd go with intercourse. That song "I like pussy but I'd rather get some head" is bullshit.

Everyone knows? I know at least 6 men who would disagree with this statementse....


i think everybody is a sucker for somebody. she my not suck my dick but best believe theres some nigga out there she's deep throatin

SMH.....

[Deuce]

Everyone knows? I know at least 6 men who would disagree with this statement....

I'm one of those men.

I completely missed that statement by Dirty but uhhh....nah bruh, I would take head over pussy anyday. Sure I like pussy...but I think I'm obsessed with getting head. If head had its own apartment I would sit outside and hide in the bushes...catch my drift?

[MiMi]

Yeah he is... smh....and he would like a crackhead waiting for their next hit

[Deuce]

It also depends on who the dealer is....cuz not everybody got that fire....lmaooo

[MiMi]

Shit you know as long as you getting head you aint arguing... You don't put up a fight... Do you?

[The God of War]

Head: The Argument Ender. True story, btw.

[Deuce]

Shit you know as long as you getting head you aint arguing... You don't put up a fight... Do you?

Maybe not with you but I have with others and actually stopped them. But then again you don't give me a choice. Now do you?

[MiMi]

Maybe not with you but I have with others and actually stopped them. But then again you don't give me a choice. Now do you?

You have a choice in the matter. You can say no, but you don't. I don't force myself on you. Can't force youself on the willing, now can you?

[Deuce]

I said nah that one time....but you were determined to get what you wanted.

I just had a convo with my boy and this nigga says to me "I don't eat pussy cuz I don't know who was there before me".......but uhh you stick your dick in there raw? I mean you got 3 kids by different chicks sooooo.....

[MiMi]

Lying ass nigga... You aint say shit...smh... I heard niggas say that before.. And I'm like wait you fuck 7 different chicks in one week raw but eattin is out of the question....

[his drug of choice]

I've never been ashamed to admit I give head, but I have run into men that still don't eat pussy. Hey, that's on you. So, if you don't eat pussy, your fuck game better be OFF THE CHAIN.

[Deuce]

Lying ass nigga... You aint say shit...smh... I heard niggas say that before.. And I'm like wait you fuck 7 different chicks in one week raw but eattin is out of the question....

We don't believe you, you need more people. You liar you!!

NO MEANS NO!!




I was just puttin up a semi-fight though...

[MiMi]

Semi-fight my ass... You bigger and stronger than me. How I get you out of a computer chair in to a recliner type chair? You got up and walked. Now you on the other hand. I was trying to fight you off but you would take no for an answer.

[Deuce]

Lies. I was trying to leave and you pushed me in the "recliner type" chair so you could, as YOU put it, "make me feel better".

Ok gettin back on topic, *rolls eyes @ the nerd that hijacked my thread* what are some things that you guys and gals refuse to do sexually? Obviously I think all of us here aren't going to do anything dealing with piss or shit, but what is something that a partner has asked you to do and you flat out said "HELL NAH!"?

[MiMi]

FOR REAL? Huh? Nah Man! So I forced you to allow me to perform oral sex on you? Really?

To answer the assholes new question... 3somes. I don't do them. Naw. I'm good. I don't care if i'm your women or we just fucking I don't do them. And I don't do bondage that shit freaks me out

[Deuce]

Forced? No. Were you determined to? Definitely

[Mr Kels]

Lawd, Whitney and Bobby are at it again :nana:

I'm one of those men.

I completely missed that statement by Dirty but uhhh....nah bruh, I would take head over pussy anyday. Sure I like pussy...but I think I'm obsessed with getting head. If head had its own apartment I would sit outside and hide in the bushes...catch my drift?

I'm with you on this. I would stalk the shit out of head, and pounce on it as soon as it shows its face. :yes:

Head: The Argument Ender. True story, btw.

I read that story. It was heart warming and moving. *standing ovation*

I really don't get why people would be against it at all. Don't people know that the feeling of pleasing someone leads to a more pleasurable encounter? Grow up people

[MiMi]

Forced? No. Were you determined to? Definitely
But at no point did you make an effort to remove my head from your lap. Matter of fact all I heard from you were moans and felt your hands griping my hair.

Lawd, Whitney and Bobby are at it again :nana:

Screw you buddy



I'm with you on this. I would stalk the shit out of head, and pounce on it as soon as it shows its face. :yes:



I read that story. It was heart warming and moving. *standing ovation*

I really don't get why people would be against it at all. Don't people know that the feeling of pleasing someone leads to a more pleasurable encounter? Grow up people
I agree...

[his drug of choice]

Wait, you tom'bout us giving the play by play in the other thread! Ha! :lmao:

[MiMi]

See we not talkin bout me... we talkin bout ya'll

[his drug of choice]

It's the same difference.


*blink blink*

[MiMi]

nope not me.... yall... not this thread.... the other one.....

[his drug of choice]

Mmm hmm...

Anyway, I had a guy tell me he never did that, next thing I know, he's buried up to his tongue in my snatch. I was like, "I thought you didn't do that." He said he meant he didn't do it with every girl. Let's just say I'm glad I'm one of the girls he decided to taste. Hehehehe

[Voodoo]

*Sigh*

[The God of War]

Yeah, what Kels said.

I won't choose between head and puss. Ladies, can't I pleasure you both ways? Can't you do the same for me?